I understand enough to know at the end my girl means "right now." That being said my girl sent me this last night after a conversation of her possibly moving to New York for a job.

"I'm not going to NY cause it would be a hassle to go right now but more importantly cause I'd rather be close to you. You always say do what I have to do and don't not do something because of you but this isn't something I have to do, I can find a job here and having the perfect job isn't the most important thing to me. It's important but being with someone who loves, understands and supports me is more important. I plan on being with you for a long time so you're always going to win over a job in another state that doesn't have anything to do with what I want to do. I know I found something good with you and I know the chances of me finding it again are slim and I don't want to have to try to find it again. I want it to be you. And if it was this awesome wonderful perfect dream job, they have gyms in NY so you'd have to just bring that ass, love you babe 😘"

Don't like long distance relationships, don't believe they work and I've made my stance on this really clear before. I plan on moving to another state at some point, the work I do can go anywhere. My concern is how women can take advantage of men who move because of them, instead of following the man or moving together. Does that make sense?