Question for the more pious Christians of the Red Pill

Red_Rising · 2016-10-27T13:47:03+00:00

Go on mission trip to a country where women respect men.
Find attractive Christian woman who is serving at the church/foundation you are helping with
Marry

Seriously though, the Christian walk involves putting to death much of our "natrual" (sinfull) nature. The American church has more or less decided to rail on men for their sin nature (porn, anger, dirty talk) and give women a free pass on theirs (gossip, laziness, even hypergamy).

I'm not saying you can't find an American Christian woman who has really crucified her nature and will walk with you like Prov.31 but I am saying it will be much easier if she comes from a different culture.

cashcow1 · 2016-10-27T14:46:48+00:00

now that you know the nature of modern reality and modern women, what do you intend to do about it from a religious context?

Be a man and lead my family. Use righteous elements of game to help my wife grow spiritually (i.e. gently teasing her when she's sinning), and helping her to gain some control over her moods.

We shouldn't have sex before marriage and we should find a wife and so on, however this is so bloody hard and stupid in our modern society.

Yeah, it's awful. You don't have a prayer with high n-count women. You need a woman from a traditional religious background.

How do you synthesize your faith with the modern world?

I don't. I believe what is true, and hold fast to it regardless of what society says. I may contextualize my approach to preaching the gospel to help modern people understand it, but I reject our immoral culture overall.

This is really an issue I'm having problems with, since I don't want to sin, however the world around us compels individuals to do morally sinful acts.

Same as it ever was, since Paul's time. Don't focus on your sin. Focus on how God forgives you, then man up and ACT to do good works and serve others.

Born again Christians are usually sluts who want to pretend their virtuous, and so many of the church communities around me are basically empty, so it's practically impossible to find a girl to marry.

Find a different church. Move if you need to. You absolutely CANNOT follow God in one of these cucked, false-teaching churches.

Check out the blogs by Dalrock, Deep Strength, Biblical Gender Roles, and Vox Day. These are all Red Pill Christians, from differing backgrounds, traditions, and approaches to Red Pill Christianity.

Deep Strength is probably my favorite, and has helped me the most in my marriage.

0kool74 · 2016-10-27T16:15:07+00:00

Well here's a way to look at it......and I'm sure I'll catch some flak for this. But, when God puts women back to the way they were, then we as men can get in line. Until then, continue reaping what He's allowed to be sown.

[deleted] · 2016-10-27T16:43:51+00:00

Someone else mentioned this, but the sex before marriage is not something necessarily sinful. It is an invention of humans.

Sex is a way of expressing our love, in a sense, making God happy. We honor him and his creations.

I am more spiritual and less religious. So, what does this mean for me? I cut out of my life one night stands. I have sex with friends and girls that I have connections with. I think this is also better from a practical point. Sex becomes safer (less stds, more honesty), sex becomes more intimate and has the possibility of leading to something more if you desire it.

Don't get so caught up in religious doctrine.

RunawayGrain · 2016-10-27T18:24:07+00:00

For one thing, realize that there are several features of modern Christianity that are actually at odds with scripture. Like the idea that everyone has to get married:

1 Corinthians 7 8:9

Now to the unmarried and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I do. But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.

There's a stigma attached to not being married as fast as possible after high school in many churches. Most of the guys that were telling me something must be wrong when I wasn't married at 23 are the same guys that got divorce raped and now tell me I was just smarter than they were. Just saying.

Born again Christians are usually sluts who want to pretend their virtuous, and so many of the church communities around me are basically empty, so it's practically impossible to find a girl to marry.

Yeah, the younger church girls were pretty much just as bad or worse than any other girl, but with much higher focus on work avoidance and any mans financial situation. That, and the high number of them that do BJ's and anal, but still claim to be virgins is just galling. A lot of the older ones have just had their fun on the CC, and want to bag a provider. If you want to watch some high drama erupt, just be a successful male at a church with younger to middle aged women there. Truly good women are very rare.

Proverbs 31:10

Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.

Most women will tell you they are a good woman though. The key is discernment, and realizing that your commitment shouldn't be given, it should be earned.

getsome187 · 2016-10-28T11:49:53+00:00

Oh wow I just had to sit down and write a response to this post so here goes.

I'm 44 now and was raised in a strict religion that I actually like. The only reason I really left was sex but that's another topic. In this religion you did not have sex outside of marriage, no if and or buts. So this meant that ideally you got married as a virgin and I did at 26. Let me say that in our sexualized world being a virgin at 26 even for religious reasons is a horrible life. You end up just masturbating and hating yourself due to your desires because god made us to have sex and procreate. What happened is that I ended up marrying a woman just to have sex. We had no idea what we were doing and the sex sucked. I had no idea that people could be sexually incompatible but we were. There was a ton of other issues but just because her N count was zero did not make her wife material but what did I know. All of my male examples were hard core in the faith and knew nothing about how woman actually are or how to treat them. I stayed married for 10 years and had a kid, all because I thought that was the proper way to do it from my religious upbringing.

Now that I'm out of the religion for about 10 years, gotten some life experience, dated a lot and have a little sex god in me I have a much different perspective. As a man in the western world I do not think you are prepared to be a virgin and marry. You are going to have a warped view. You have better odds of wining the lottery then finding some young religious girl and living happy ever after.

I do think that with some experience in life and learning TRP that when you are older you could see women for what they are and find a young good woman and mold her into a proper wife. The problem is that in our kardashian world there is no woman out there that is not corrupted. You either need to find them in a 3rd world country or get them from a Mormon compound when they turn 16.

You asked what do you intend to do: I intend to continue to live a happy debaucherous lifestyle, never get married and try not to accidentally have kids. The older I get the more that door of opportunity to find some young 20 hot wife with a low n count is closing. Its passed me by so why cry over spilled milk. Knowing what I know now, if I was a 25 year old guy I would fuck away my 20's, then go back to church at 30 and find a 20 year old that came from a good family and hopefully she does not go off the reservation later in life. IF you decide to get married, for the sake of god get a good prenup.

I say this because I dated a 25 year old virgin when I was about 36 and she was smoking hot, shy good nice person, raised in a religious household with her parents still married. I was her first and it lasted a while but later on she became a whore, doing all sorts of depraved sexual shit. Of course she didn't do them with me but after we split with random craigslist guys. I laugh at it now but AWALT even for religious women, maybe its true that the catholic school girls are the biggest freaks.

Nyquil-Junkie · 2016-10-27T13:45:13+00:00

I don't think you can blend Christianity and the red pill philosophy.

[deleted] · 2016-10-27T15:23:06+00:00

I'm a christian and I believe the no sex before marriage was created not because it's sinful in itself to sleep with a woman you're not married to, but to solve certain problems in society. Like limit womens hypergami, and make good families where there's a father and a mother to take care of the children. Contraception was not as good then as it was now, neither was the knowledge about diseases. So sex outside marriage was a bigger risk to human, and the bible solved this. It's a rule for the humans.

onepill_twopill · 2016-10-27T15:45:46+00:00

You're going to blame society for your lack of strength to stay on a virtuous path? That's your own weakness. Rise above it. Show real strength, and make your path, using the guidelines that God laid out for you. Be a real man that others can respect and look up to. Strong in your faith, doing the work of God. That will attract the right kind of woman that will aid and enhance your life, and the life you're making. Right now, you sound like a beta Christian.

Title	Question for the more pious Christians of the Red Pill
Author	onepill_twopill
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Date	October 27, 2016 1:24 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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