So first of all, this really only applies to guys who still have or want to have intimate relationships with women (which I personally wouldn’t recommend). This PSA is based on real events that happened to me, but I will be very vague with the details so I don’t dox myself.

So around a year ago, when I was 20, I was in a semi-serious relationship with a woman that was also 20. If you know anything about people that are my age (or around it), you know that typically we are broke and have a lot of student loan debt. That was the case for me at the time. The woman I was dating, however, wasn’t broke and didn’t have any student loans, even though she was still in school. The logical explanation is mommy and daddy, but I met her folks before, and somehow they were even poorer than I was.

Over time I became very curious as to how she could afford a (relatively) nice apartment, and a Mercedes in addition to paying off her student loans, while simultaneously being in school and unemployed. I’m a pretty blunt man, so I asked her point blank. She gave me a really vague explanation about inheritance and how the stock market was doing well. At that time, I was still very much blue pilled, so I had no reason to doubt the story she gave me. After a couple months of dating this girl, it came out (through a mutual friend who let it slip) that she had multiple sugar daddies who paid all of her expenses, and she did high-end escorting on the side.

That was more or less my MGTOW-origin story. I broke up with her and got STD tested immediately after, then 6 months after that. I then spent the next year or so bouncing between certain pill ideologies, and MGTOW, and other lifestyle-related communities.

Fast forward to four months ago, where I started to see a new woman (I know, I know). This relationship was almost strictly sex, since I learned my lesson from last time. A bit into the relationship, I noticed that this new woman had a nicer car, and pretty expensive clothes and jewelry. The old me would’ve thought “wow, maybe I can learn how she made so much money and do it myself,” but the new me saw this as a red flag almost immediately. I sat her down and asked her where she made so much money to be able to have such extravagant tastes, and immediately got a half-cooked story about how she sold knick-knacks on Etsy. I didn’t believe her, and had some trust issues (courtesy of woman #1), so I broke it off with her. That’s when she poured her heart out and admitted to being an OnlyFans “model.”

Now here I am, 4 months since my last STD test because of woman #2, and 2 months from my next one, courtesy of the same woman. Don’t be like me. Don’t date women. Don’t marry them, don’t cohabitate with them. Don’t think your experiences will be any different than mine. Save yourself the trouble. All women are truly like that, and all women are capable of doing you like they did me.