Guys, why do women not want kids with strangers, but will often use a sperm bank knowing nothing about the man?

kdsflyfree · 2021-03-12T01:00:03+00:00

A male wanting a child is different than a female. The high value male wanting a child is a serious decision, it takes finding and vetting candidates thoroughly, ensuring they are able to carry the seed and nurture it with good knowledge, provide it the love and care it needs whilst you're earning bread. Many of whom will be unsuitable because by definition the high value male will have top picks to choose from, there will also be a lot females vying for the high value seed, good genetics etc.

As a male if you say you want a child quickly without vetting the female then you're by default a low value male because you are desperate to spread your seed and will not take the time to vet the correct female and therefore females will not accept your low value seed.

northernCAgrown · 2021-03-12T00:36:57+00:00

Who cares, lol. Think about something else.

kdsflyfree · 2021-03-12T01:30:19+00:00

I can't believe I'm taking time to respond to this.

You're equating two different populations of women, one much larger than the other.

If a woman gets pregnant she's stuck with caring for a kid, which is truly a pain in the ass for even the most nurturing mother, especially if the man doesn't stick around to provide and help. Ot they get an abortion which is a hassle for her and can have long term impact on her fertility. This is why MOST women use birth control and MOST single women don't want to get pregnant.

A much smaller group of women have given up on the idea of getting a man and/or are feminists who hate men, and decide to have a kid on their own. In that case, they will want to have the best genes they can get, and also be in control (hypergamy still rules). In that case they will either try to get pregnant from a high value friend (men beware!) or, if they are especially hopeless or controlling, go the sperm bank route. Sperm bank men can be selected for intelligence or whatever qualities the woman thinks she wants at that particular moment. Looks are usually low on priority.

And yeah, it is crazy for a guy to want a kid with someone they haven't vetted. You are stuck with the mother for life through the kid, unless you want to abandon the kid, and then you suck as a person.

(Edited to remove personal insult)

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FinancialThanks1 · 2021-03-12T00:39:31+00:00

You wanting a kid with a girl you just met = a woman wanting a kid with a guy she just met

A woman wanting a kid from sperm bank = you wanting a kid from surrogate

Musicgoon · 2021-03-12T01:34:57+00:00

What is this?

I've never seen a single mom go to a sperm bank. The fuck you talking about? That's not hypergamy. They find some guy to trap and they get a free ride from uncle sam and a walking atm from the father.

This is how it's done. I know zero chicks that have gone to a sperm bank. Their hypergamy wants them to catch a high smv man and also to cuck a betabux provider.

If you want a kid, read the sidebar, spin plates, learn female nature then vet a girl that will make a good mother. There aren't shortcuts with this big of a decision.

cunningcaring · 2021-03-12T02:18:33+00:00

The sperm bank collects a lot of data on the donor.

Azaku116 · 2021-03-12T17:22:10+00:00

Okay, I am almost certain that you are a troll. Why else would you post that many creepy and messed up comments in such a short time?

To answer your question: Because some people want children without entering a longterm relationship. What's so weird about that? And looking at your post history, you don't strike me as someone who comes across as all that likeable. Maybe the women you have been talking to just don't want to have sex with you specifically?

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