I've been dating her for a little over a year. I'm happy with where we're at. I don't want to see her any more often than I already do (1-2 times/week). She's a lot of fun and I want to keep her around.

Lately, she has been saying shit like, "What are we? Am I your girlfriend?" She says we have to have a talk. I have been delaying her.

She is not the quality that I require to make her any more official than she already is.

My idea is to tell her, "We get along so well already. Why are you trying to mess around with an arrangement that's already working?"

She's 35, post wall, probably feeling pressure from that to do something with herself. Also I have been seeing another, hotter, girl for the past couple months who she knows about, so that probably has something to do with it also.

I think I know how to handle this talk, just checking for comments from TRP in case I overlooked something.