I was having an insight about when feminists encourage men to do two things: starting therapy and quitting porn.

While both things are positive, there is something wrong.

When they encourage men to seek therapy, it's about the well-being of those around men, not men themselves.

When they encourage men to stop consuming porn, it's about the negative effects it brings to women, not the well-being of men who consume porn.

Is it just me or this is rooted in pure selfishness?
They encourage men to do positive things, but it's never about their well-being. It's about the well-being of those around men.
Men starting therapy and quitting porn should be for their OWN well-being, right?

Honestly? It's infuriating to see how they pretend to care about men when actually it's always about the well-being of the others around them.