anti-feminism guilt?

CoolDEpot · 2020-11-19T23:32:34+00:00

I think some of them are just brainwashed so i think about how they are gona feel the day they realize how wrong they were haha.
Theres also the ones that know the truth and take advantage of it, what i do is lose empathy for them and relax in the fact that im being the adult in the room i can be proud of being honest, good and mature.

Also talking to others like in this forum and help others and realize that you are nor alone theres lot of us going through the same feels good.

I just think that even if they do deserve to be hated, its better for my own interest to not feel these things becasue those are destructive feelings.
Its also better for the movement so we dont look bad as angry hateful people.

Pingayaso · 2020-11-20T00:18:58+00:00

First of all you have to understand that feminism and women are not mutually inclusive nor representate each other.

Second, you only represent yourself, not all women, so feeling ashamed for what feminists do is not valid nor useful.

Third, follow your gut. You owe feminism and feminists nothing, they make you believe that you do but no, if your instinc tells you to get away from feminism just do it. If you want to hear some women talking against feminism i recommend Karen Straughan, Christina Hoff Summers, Janice Fiamengo or Cassie Jaye, this last was a militant feminist that in the process of making a documentary discovered the truth about feminism wich made her stop supporting it. She made another documentary in 2016 exposing feminism. She'a been against it since.

ThatParanormalRobGuy · 2020-11-20T12:34:07+00:00

Hey there. Feminism is a mess of women who believe that they are oppressed. I am an equalist and support equal rights. You shouldn't feel ashamed of being anti-feminist, they have no regards to men issues and other such this. Please PM me if you want to talk more about this and why you shouldn't be a feminist.

Body_Infamous · 2020-11-20T01:00:33+00:00

Don't cut it short everyone is brought up the exact same way, taught them feminism is the only true way. So we all understand the decision and have all already gotten by that hump. Although for me it was a lot easier cus being a guy I was already fed up with hearing "Girl power" and "Girls can do anything" and "We don't need no man"

shelly_cttncndy · 2020-11-20T05:30:24+00:00

Just for reverence. Being a feminist does not mean agreeing with everything totals say. I like to call woman who think that they should be superior to men femi-nazis. However I do support stuff that doesnt involve hating men like legalise abortions, no hard dresscodes and yes, women rights in countrys where woman are actually really opressed. That still makes me kind of a feminist. And I'm not a bad person. I just want things to run smooth for everyone

2020-11-20T08:46:15+00:00

just act like a normal person with basic manners and then decide which one is more straight on your moral compass

AndrewTheBritishNump · 2020-11-20T12:13:42+00:00

Assuming your ideal world has gender equality of sorts, it’s perfectly fine to simply not believe feminism is the route we need to take to achieve that. One can support gender equality without belonging to a movement which ignores male mental health, promotes the law that means men can’t be raped in the UK, and constantly attacks 50% of the population, and pushed them as the enemy.

You don’t have to be a feminist to want equality between genders. You can be an egalitarian, and I’m sure there are many other movements. It is more than okay to want equality, but believe that feminism isn’t advocating for that.

z770i1 · 2020-11-22T17:02:51+00:00

I was a feminist, changed to egalitarian, yet my sister says they are the same.

Thinking of changing to anti feminist

Title	anti-feminism guilt?
Author	velvvetie
Upvotes	26
Comments	11
Date	November 19, 2020 11:05 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/AntiFeminists
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