Out of many instances where these things didn't happen, I recall the following ones where the woman would act like I was sliced bread, before ghosting (texting but never meeting up again). These are all ONS from dating apps where they come over straight, fuck, and peace out generally within a span of a couple hours.

  • Literally throws herself on me after coming into my place. sex. makes plans for the future: me and my roommates are going to a concert tomorrow :) you should join us! never hear from them again
  • sex (i had insisted on no condom). "Next time, we can go no condom :)" never met up again
  • incredibly obsessed with me first and second date. "You look like you're photoshopped" etc. before she leaves (I kicked her out after sex), she says to the effect of "uwu I'd like to see you again. let me know any time you'd ever like to hang out again :)". she fucked a guy three days later, texts dropped, and never to be seen again.

Note: all of the above dates went really well. Nothing weird I noticed (other than I couldn't finish in the first one -- she did). second one, noone finished. third one, we both finished each time. But they were very into me so it was definitely not a matter of attraction. I was without a doubt, chad to them as gay as it sounds. I guess they just found a chadder chad?

I'm guessing that it's a safety thing - they're being safe and ending it on a good note so that the guy doesn't get clingy or get mad. Or maybe they are seeing other guys and wanted to fuck me quick and leave me open as an option if case their plan A didnt pan out. And in doing so, they're overcompensating and being overtly lovely. This is in stark contrast to dates that go really well and we meet up again -- they generally say they had a good time, but they don't reference a "next time".