Hey everyone,

I am at a crossroads in my life. Last year on Dec 24th. my exgf of almost 3 years dumped me. (yes on christmas). She strung me along the whole month of January with hot/cold treatment before she came out and told me she was with another man first week of Feb. She was a single mom so I was typically your blue pill beta provider to her and her child.

I have every reason to believe she was cheating on me. Regardless, I have had some minor successes with women here and there. A couple I fkd around with. I have yet to get into a solid relationship again however. Not to mention I still only get single moms/women with baggage/divorced women and I dont know why!

I am contemplating going MGTOW as I have lots of fears, angers and distrusts towards women. In general I just dont want to deal with their drama again nor do I like how they are after swallowing the pill. But I still want pussy lol. I still want to get laid, rosey palm isnt enough. Do I learn game/PUA or go mgtow? That's my biggest choice.

I am 29 years old. 205lbs at 5'11 (im trimming down after a bulk phase), somewhat handsome, successful oil field career, I get 20-30% matches on Tinder, and have had a few plates this year.

Your thoughts?