What’s wrong with me?

Efficient_Film_149 · 2021-05-08T11:01:27+00:00

You’re emotionally connected to someone you don’t even know. That’s what is wrong with you

319Skew · 2021-05-08T14:03:19+00:00

Delete, block and don't think about her.

You're suffering from oneitus over a fictional person. In your mind you've created a feedback loop of positive things about her that aren't real.

So, wake up. Take her off that pedestal.

DoubleConversation4 · 2021-05-08T11:30:04+00:00

We both have the same ethnic and cultural background. She also fits my criteria for someone I’d one day want to marry. Someone I can bring home to my ethnic parents lol.

She's your fantasy. In your mind, she's exactly the type of girl who you can have a pristine and pure emotional connection. It's almost like you both were made for each other.

TRP might have induced this, since being aware of how current generation's women are turning into whores could create a fixation on finding a "good, innocent, trad" woman in your psyche.

But have heard great things

Basically, the idea of her is better than the real her in your mind, considering you've already turned her into someone you could bring home to your parents.

The fantasy is a place you can escape to from the expectations of marriage of you by your parents, from having a boring life, from not having had a good relationship until this age, etc.

Usually people who feel unconfident cope with their low self-esteem by creating fantasy scenarios where they're rich, powerful, someone who others look up to.

In this case, probably being from the same ethnical background triggered this.

Usually this occurs in men who have a scarcity mentality, so, block her from everywhere, don't look at her profile anymore, and go fuck other women.

This probably won't stop until you find someone else like her, or start fucking other women.

comcain · 2021-05-08T16:33:27+00:00

Oneitis. Move on.

Title	What’s wrong with me?
Author	--Sleepy_Sheep--
Upvotes	2
Comments	7
Date	May 8, 2021 10:56 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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