Most females would rather be with a guy who spends all of his time at the gym and all of his money on clothes and tattoos over a guy who who isn’t so flashy, and invests his time into his craft.

Why? Because even though the one who invest his time into his craft and isn’t as flashy is on a better path, SHE can’t USE him to VALIDATE herself to her friends and family.

The jocked chad with tattoos can be broke as fuck but he has the latest shoes and designer so he APPEARS like he is doing something with his life and he is of better use to the parasite.