Hey guys! 5months ago GF (5+ years both mid/late 20s) started having doubts because of our future. I am from a different natioanlity but same race, religion and so on. It is a relatively normal constlation where I live. She said she is worried about our future: how our children would grow up, I don't really get along with her mother, she wants to live near her parents (only child and overprotecting father), which would be a nighrmare for me.

I did not know redpill during this LTR but acted solid overall for a young redpiller. After the third time she told me that she has doubts after I told her how I wanna raise my kids and maybe move we broke up. She said evretime she is alone she has this thoughts of us failing and she beeing old then. This insecurities just drove me crazy. After the breakup and discovered redpill I thought maybe she wants to ride the CC and sleep around (She is 25). But after a few months she already had a new boyfriend: a childhood friend which lives near her parents and has probably had feelings for her for years. No college, no gym, shorter and not really good looking.

How as a redpiller could I handle such Situations with next LTRs? It was like:"become a part of my reality or I will be sad forever" from her. Was this inevitable or could I have acted different from a red pill view?