How my best friend's bf took her away from me

383 points•37 comments•submitted by McccyFDS Disciple to r/FemaleDatingStrategy

So my best friend was always kind of a pick me. I suggested her to share an apoartment on 2020 and she was slowly becoming more self confident and less man-obssesed.

Then the lockdown came.

We had to go back to our families and back to our hometown. She soon got into a relashionship with her LVM gamer neighbor that I absolutely despite, but since we live almost an hour away I couldn't do that much to stop her, besides calling and trying to talk her out of this.

First red flags: She's 20 and he's 26. Has no job or degree and hasn't been to college or any other education after high school. He is obsessed with Belle Delphine and his sense of humour is calling everyone gay, "no homo" "that's what she said" jokes.

We met twice and it's obvious the guy hates my guts, cause he knows my friend is way off his league. So what this LVM to ever LVM does??

He uses my bisexuality against me

I absolutely love my friend, but not like THAT. He kept on making crazy theories the past month, about how I'm FLIRTING with her and how he will leave her cause of it. How me texting her everyday is an obvious sign we are dating and how a picture of us from a year ago where I'm hugging her (like friends do?) Is an oBvIoUs sign we're together beHind His Back anD we're USInG hiM as A CoVerUP.

So after a month of all this mess, my 'friend' I loved so much, the girl I know since junior high ignored me completely for a week and suddenly calls me to tell me she can't be friends with me anymore..

Maybe it's better this way tbh, if it was that easy for her to throw 7 years of friendship so easily for an Eric Cartman lookalike she never appreciated me the way I did.