I accepted that friendship with women that I find attractive is not possible. In my town, attractive girls are very rare. I'd say 2-3% of the female population here is attractive. Maybe make it 5% but not more. For that reason my goal is to keep average and/or attractive girls around me. If she pushes me to being beta, I will ghost her.

I want to keep flirting to minimum, enough to keep her interest in me. She might be interested in me for friendship, sex, validation or whatever I don't care. I want her around me. I want her to be interested in me enough to introduce me to her friends or invite me into things. I will give her limited validation and favors as long as she provides enough for my efforts.

I want to do these enough to build an abundance mentality in this shitty town. After that I will go hard and escelate and not catch oneitis along the way. I have 0 experience with women and that is why I will probably catch oneitis without abundance mentality or never getting to a point to catch oneitis at all.