I wouldn’t really say im a pushover it’s just that I don’t really have a problem with doing things or helping people out.

but most of the times the respect I have for others turn into a vulnerability to where I’m taken for granted.

like for example, I’ve been helping this girl out that lives with my uncle. she’s cool and what not and I don’t really have any altercations with her but i noticed in a matter of 2 week of being nice her attitude towards me was very rude. she even had an opinion about my life calling me a piece of sht and even went through my phone exploiting my messages.

I got mad and told her she was wrong but the fact that she did it still pisses me off.

that’s just one out of the many examples of me being taken for granted. it’s like the respect i for others is slightly or never reciprocated and im tired of it.

the thing is I don’t want to be seen as an asshole but I also don’t want to be disrespected. it’s a hard balance though because you get the energy you give but i never overstep boundaries.