Question about showing interest versus "ignoring her beauty"

thor_away92 · 2016-12-06T06:07:48+00:00

Fuck all the bullshit about compliments. Shit works, it all depends on delivery. You're pretty, nice hair, so cute? Yeah shit sucks.

But just today this chick that never dolls up came into school bangin. She had some fantastic fucking legs.

I strolled past her and I was all suave about it "Hey, I wanna dedicate this song to you, it's by Jim Hendrix. It's called Foxy Lady". I also got her number roughly 3 minutes after.

I also said this very sexually. Be original and be fun. Expressing sexual interest is a very fun and healthy activity.

Just be honest about it, even something as simple as "hey good lookin, what's going on?"

You didn't walk up to her and say "omg I love your hair" that's girl shit.

Basically you openly admit you wanna bang through your actions not so much your words. Society has taught is that is bad and disrespectful. In fact the exact opposite is true.

You can do this by chatting about mundane bullshit like her dog; but do look at her breasts, do think of her naked. Don't actually pay too much attention (they're use to this with guys they fuck). You can even space out on her cleavage...come to and just be like "hey give me your number, let's go out sometime"

Your brain will do the rest. Also expect to be clunky, awkard and creepy for the first few rounds. Shit takes practice.

Aaren_Augustine · 2016-12-06T05:26:12+00:00

Attention, kino, flirting, whatever, do it. Verbally complementing her on her clothes, not so much. Telling her she's a pretty girl? Nope.

moontripper1246 · 2016-12-06T06:58:14+00:00

It completely depends on what stage of the interaction you are in and what kind of responses you are already eliciting. If she's touching your chest, looking you in the eye and biting her lip, you can say "your so fucking cute" kiss her and she'll love it. If you try and do that after you say hi...well it might still work but not as often loll. My point is girls will give you signals, aka IOI's (Indicators Of Interest) of when to appropriately escalate. If she's being incredibly cold, ie. her bitch shield is up, then you want to ask distant, disinterested, diss her a bit. That is a simple description of what to do. If she's giving you several obvious IOI's then you'd be a fool not to make a move. Of course there are nuances to every situation, and if you want to know some good resources to look deeper into when, where and why to either be disinterested or escalate then drop a comment.

Title	Question about showing interest versus "ignoring her beauty"
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Date	December 6, 2016 5:05 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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