Does that mean necessarily that they see me as beta? Happened more than once, I was loud (even in a party context) and they tried to shame me for being loud saying things indicating that I have no social awareness (I am poorly translating what they've said). The thing is, I am not beta, I have a strong frame around them without being an asshole, generally I am a chill and happy dude, self-amused. One of them is a plate and absolutely love me, she is very feminine/emotional so I have to be very masculine/dominant for her to feel aroused but even her tried to shame me once(I just shrugged it off). Guys don't fuck with me or anything like that and most looks beta as fuck in comparison to me. So this shaming came as a surprise for me, I am trying to understand why they do this even though I (think) I am not a beta. Both times that this happened, I just kind of laugh and ignored and continued being loud. I also was on acid(makes me really dominant and self amused).