I've been switching been 3 girls i'm doing friends with benefits with. One of which is super hot because she's an amazing fuck (#1), one who is in insane delusional, extremely religious, psycho (she stopped me from making her orgasm multiple times) (#2), and will do anything to be considered innocent, and some average girl (#3). Anyways I've basically had girl #2 and #3 on the backburner for a little while because girl #1 is fucking awesome and plate theory works wonders. Plus girl #2 really turns me off with her stupid bullshit and disney fantasy crap, which i have no tolerance for.

Anyways 2 days ago I slept with a fourth girl and she was a virgin and it was one of the worst sex experiences i've had in my life (the girl moaned like some special ed kid, couldn't cum at all, bit my dick and balls and wouldn't communicate so i literally did everything and all of the communication. i basically just came quickly and left after a little while because it was so bad) . I told girl #2 about this in a funny way because girl #1 thought it was pretty fucking hilarious. Girl #2 seemed fine until the next day. I was supposed to have some fun with her but meh i didn't fucking feel like it and I wasn't about to drive a hour back to my uni apartment just for that. She was fine about that until she got off work and she got mad at me about ditching her and said some passive aggressive crap and I was like "you know what, with this sort of shit you're saying right now I don't ever want to see your ass again". She then started lamenting pissing and moaning about me objectifying her (she directly said she wanted me to objectify her and only wants guys who like her body) and that she wanted to wait to see me in person to say that (what the fuck. driving an hour for that sort of shit is just insane). I called her out on that bullshit and said that plus this is fwb not recruit a boyfriend. She then started saying this crap about how I broke her heart with comments about the virgin girl and how i ruined her self-esteem. I was like "You're really stupid. It's called self-esteem for a reason and I'm not responsible for any of your own personal problems, so fuck off". She then sent me like 45 texts about religious nonsense and how I need to be kind to everyone (that's her issue. she's always conflicted and feels like shit because she doesn't do what's right for herself and is just a total people-pleasing doormat who secretly resents everyone.) I called her out on her bullshit and said why she's always miserable and conflicted and insecure (because she's a damn people pleaser) as well as called her out on her fake innocence and delusional point of view. She was like "never talk to me again" and I was like "okay adios :)" and that was the end of her.

I think I did pretty well. I didn't go out of my way to have fun with her when she was obviously going to dump on me, I didn't tolerate her bullshit, and I called her out on everything. I also had no problem severing ties when she turned out to be a total bitch. Also, most importantly I got other options. How'd I do and what's with women accusing guys of ruining their self-esteem? I've had girls say that a few times now. It's just laughable to me because it's called SELF-esteem for a reason