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Modern day women

Nowayjoes1234 · 2021-06-26T01:54:27+00:00

Just a quick question for everyone around the world. Would you consider the women in your country to have self respect and worth? If you respond please tell me...

Nowayjoes1234

June 26, 2021

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Title	Modern day women
Author	Nowayjoes1234
Upvotes	12
Comments	4
Date	June 26, 2021 1:54 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/AntiFeminists
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/antifeminists/comments/o81g9a/modern_day_women/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/AntiFeminists/modern-day-women.786984 https://theredarchive.com/post/786984

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[–]yahikoenshoumra 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]yahikoenshoumra 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

The pros:

Fully supportive
They provide for the family as a housewife.
Most of them are housewives by choice.
Even the ones that go to work are able to take care to the children.
Essential skills such as cooking, washing and so on are passed even to the most modern of women.
They are very great people. [Like seriously. The way the wife helps out the husbands in my family is nothing more than amazing. Most of my family's females work along with their husbands and their way of raising children does differ a bit.]
The family courts or divorce in general doesn't suck as they do follow Islam which doesn't do the 50/50 thing
Parents have shared custody in most cases. In the bad cases you would be to visit once a week, yet she can't prevent you from seeing your children unless you are an abuser or an alcoholic (And abuse here does require solid evidence and is taken seriously and went into depth not like the false rape accusations done in the west)
Due to most females being Muslims, false rape accusations are quite low and don't like interacting with stranger men or co-workers in an intimated way
They know that each gender was built for a certain role.
Most women especially in the south are traditional.
Men (at least to what I saw in my family tree and other relatives) always take the opinion of their wives. (So more points of views)
They are family oriented, so they would love to keep family/social connections which is a plus for me cause social/family connections are important.
Most save themselves for marriage as pre-marriage sex is hated in our society
College graduates women do not act entitled like the west (Some do of course but not as common)
Sex work is not favored and so only fans are not as openly allowed like the west
Her body her choice is not something since most are Muslims thus they share what to do with the babies
Children are raised by them not by maids or anyone else (except in rich families)

The cons:

More women are becoming feminists but the number is still quite low and is not that accepted in society (since they are ordering more privileges than Islam which is the main religion of the country) (Mostly in the Urban cities like Cairo)
The traditional skill is by choice being blocked by not passing it on, thanks to modern feminists
Some women are financially draining especially when it comes to the beginning of the marriage (since traditions make you buy A LOT of stuff)
Abortions are not acceptable in Egypt, so you better be ready for the baby
While it is changing a lot some people still abuse their kids
Divorce while possible is really socially hated and is used as a last resolve card
You can't have female friends after marriage. If you had any before marriage you will have to cut connections with them
Be ready for the nagging and the loud voice in most homes (not screaming at each other but just overall loud)
Women insulting or hitting men is sadly becoming more acceptable only in the major cities where feminism is strong (the other way around is highly not acceptable by anyone)'
Women domestic abuse is not taken seriously
Overall society cares a lot about marks and grades
#Metoo (is apparently cause I just figured this out) is bombing in Egypt thanks to feminist in Cairo
Current traditional females are constantly being hated on by the new media driven feminists
Current females do not take the traditional house tasks as serious and relay more on out doors food nowadays and houses are generally less clean
They care too much about their outside image (so no dress can be worn twice to a wedding if there are even one person that saw her with that dress before). The house will be brought upside down and cleaned even to the atoms when someone is coming to visit you

Neutral:

While in Marriage, your money is shared as it is a house income (thanks to the authority you gain in the house and as a compensation of you not working as much in the house) but her money is hers and if she gives it to you she is rewarded greatly socially and religiously (Islamic ruling). Asking her to give you money by force is legally punishable but not the other way around (force is of course punishable legally but it is her right to ask for money even if she makes like ten times yours)

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