Need some advice/reality check

GoodMan_Gone · 2021-07-07T08:40:32+00:00

I strongly advice you to go see a male psychologist, OP. As I see it you have serious mental issues, which will only deepen if you let them be. I'm not saying you're crazy but if you don't deal with the issues chances increase you might do things later in life which you very much regret afterwards.

ImmortanV8 · 2021-07-07T09:33:50+00:00

Very difficult to overcome these issues by yourself, it‘s a life long struggle and you don’t have a guarantee that you will overcome them. Find an older male psycho doc in order to help you. Check if he is red pilled or a efaminated pussy worshipper.

Do not dabble into drugs, with your preconditions you are ripe for a psychosis or worse. Not even pot or alcohol! Stay away from them!

I would distance myself from those parents and begin to set up my own rules for interacting with them. It they stay toxic move across the country for work and see them on Christmas or your holidays only. Start making your own experiences in life in order to enlighten yourself. People are only the mirror into your own soul. If you fcuk any women in the process never forget to wrap it up, never go in raw. Pussy is like crack, you keep chasing the pink dragon after you get your first high even though sex is mostly mediocre because that hole is empty, but that’s another story

ronak1112roshan · 2021-07-07T14:30:38+00:00

My G, this is way above our paygrade. I would suggest find a senior male psychologist specializing in childhood trauma. Thats all I can offer. I hope you find the help you need. A hug from a brother. Take care.

Oohhthehumanity · 2021-07-09T01:41:08+00:00

As said in other reactions most of us do not have the training or the background information to advise you about your psychological conditions. Seek the help of a MALE psychologist to deal with those.

Why a male, you may ask? Since part of your (resulting) problems seem to be sexual in nature you want the person that you trust with these issues and that advises you in them not to be part of them. Chances are if the psychologist is female you might unconsciously transfer part of the issues regarding your mother unto her as she might become the new "mother"-figure in your life which will introduce a new set of problems into your life hence the strong preference for a male.

That doesn't mean that any male psychologist will do. Find one (even if that takes some time) that you feel comfortable sharing your most intimate thoughts with. If you have to "hold back" chances are you won't get to any of the deeper issues and you keep just "going through
the motions" in your sessions and you become just another "time slot" in their schedule. Also make sure the psychologist is not "leading" you in your train of thought. He is just a facilitator you are the one determining where you want to go. To put it metaphorically you are the train engineer, the psychologist is "just" the conductor. You determine which stations you do or do not want to visit.

Regarding "the thirst" I think we CAN actually advise you. In your post you mention nothing about hobbies or interests....if you don't have them FIND THEM. For most guys it can't completely replace the thirst but at the bare minimum it provides you with a form of escapism to keep your mind busy.

tamb2 · 2021-07-07T16:07:04+00:00

Of course no social contact with this female.

Black_Jackel · 2021-07-08T16:01:45+00:00

Damn I don’t even know what kind of advice I could give. I hope you feel better soon

Title	Need some advice/reality check
Author	Zetsu_2077
Upvotes	5
Comments	12
Date	July 7, 2021 5:05 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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