Basically I have been doing the tinder and bumble thing. I have been out on 5 dates or 6 dates all of which got better. However, I am still not sealing the deal. Also, I am having problems with not one second date.

My situation is pretty unique and I think girls pick up on this. I do not currently have a job as I am going thru a cancer scare and have pretty serious back pain (which I hide from the ladies)

So I just fall back to saying im doing what I used to do. Finance manager.

I live in a house with my bro and im 35 years old, single, never married.

I know I need to start cold approach like fck but I always think of something good to say after the moment passes.

I have watched countless hours on the 21 youtube website and a few other about all aspects of game. But I know im just starting a long journey.

Im getting pretty damn good at playing guitar in the meantime though.

My text game Id say sucks and I prob text too much.

Any help would be GREATLY appreciated, help on my path...