So I've finally got off my rear and started getting out there. I seem to have few problems getting numbers and arranging 1st meets. Sometimes I get the 2nd.

I'm in my thirties, but I've dated more now than my whole life. I'm used to one relationship that just randomly takes off, then dry spells for years.

So, the flakiness is just that bad? I'm not used to this. Girls show interest, then poor. No seeming reason for disappearing. I don't text much at all (99% logistics), I lead conversation. I find the girl more often than not bringing up work.

I must be doing something wrong, or I just wasn't listening to trp closely enough. Dating is feeling like a conveyor belt. Of I don't keep up the numbers, I'll get no results. Am I not being aggressive enough on the 1st and 2nd meets?

Genuinely stumped.