I want to mention before I begin that I do not believe this girl is a unicorn - I'm just trying to understand my situation.

I've been with my LTR for almost 6 months. Both of us are 19, she's been with 2 guys before me (year long ltr, 1 week str). I'm not saying she's perfect, but she definitely isn't an average girl compared to most 19 year olds.

-doesn't drink/smoke -no social media -not many friends -full time student and worker

She buys me and my family gifts, she's probably already spent nearly $300 on me and my family on gifts so far while i probably haven't spent even 50.

The reason for this post is because I don't know how to play this out since she doesn't follow a lot of AWALT principles. She says the guy in her last relationship was a very nice guy (a lot of beta traits - cried for her, was too nice, pretty much put her on a pedestal) but when he broke up with her she claims it devastated her and she loved him. This is what I really don't understand about her since she always says how nice he was and how I'm mean.

I'm thinking this could be because I have a lot more SMV than her and I never lose frame. I've never opened up to her or told her emotional shit and things like that. I do my best to lead.

I'm just trying to figure out this situation, any help would be appreciated. Thanks!