The red pill allowed me to deflect the blame from my lack of social skills and social acumen.

E.g. I used to think women didn't really reject man out of fear (backalley cold approaches notwithsanding) and it was just an excuse because he wasn't [whatever].

But only knowing this is not the full key.

I finally swallowed the "confidence pill" as they say on 4chan.

It was an illogical conclusion my logical mind didn't want to reach.

That being confident works because of it self.

It's fucking recursive so my mind was rejecting it.

Took me some real life experience.

Now, Red Pill still has lots of good stuff, and I'm not even talking gym but stuffs like FRAME, REACTIVENESS, but is sadly mixed with all of the misreads, misreads being plentyful in there than actual pure misoginy I think, about women.

I can now actually act confident without feeling incongruent, because now I know it works (also asked questions (but not too much at once) to men both handsome and ugly and everything in between).

Lots of purpl3 pill d3bat reading.

I also discovered my anxiety (created by my inability to attract women) is moot because by acting both confident + smooth will void precisely that problem.

Now.....

Acting smooth is not easy, but I'll be able to do it from a place of understanding and confidence.

Maybe some day it won't feel like acting.

You're getting rid of behaviours in yourself that look... bad.

E.g.

  • Don't be goofy.
  • Don't be cringe. . Don't be reactive. (This one's my hardest).
  • Don't act younger your age in terms of mannerisms.
  • Always act uninterested. (Always do it)
  • Etc etc etc

It took me till 29 to get this shit.

I've only been with 2 women.

2 virgins.

1 super serious.

1 super casual

Serious 1 was the first one, then didn't think had a chance of catching girl no. 2.

She was hotter and much more social.

I had them both through BAD game.

But it worked out of sheer luck.

And I was their type.

I was just a convenient dick for girl 2.

Completely casual, zero strings attached whatsoever.

Fucked on 2nd date (light food date).

Always went straight to my apartment after that.

The red pill dream right?

Well stopped fucking her for a month then she got herself a boyfriend and did not want to cheat on him.

Let her escalate you from "stranger" to "acquaintance" to "ok not gonna murder me" <- This I lacked. Normies call it empathy, but that's not what empathy means. Let her do that kind of escalation, not you.

Everything stems from being confident, because if she's into confidence, she's gonna bite.

And a shitload of women are attracted to confidence and social skills, on an otherwise average guy.

It's hard for us as a man to understand, because we'd fuck the hot girl living out of her Prius simply because she's hot.

Now, you're not Mr Hobo's equivalent, in fact, even if you don't have your own place, she will come to yours when your parents get out for a weekend trip, because you were normal and confident.

And you were her type.

Now gotta make bank.

Will report results in 6 months.