What I'm trying to ask below is the "balance". I'm trying to learn more about the balance by going over examples and scenarios.

So far, I've been completely forcing myself not to look at anyone's ass or boobs when I'm with a girl. But my gut says look at them. (Every day I'm being more true to myself and I feel happier. I have better focus, clarity, energy. I am reclaiming by balls and myself. So I can hear what my gut says more.)

As soon as I notice a girl (50ft radius lol), she gets most of my attention. When I'm studying, walking, shopping, reading, etc. this happens. This happens because I want women too badly. I want women too badly because I don't have any women to fuck in my life.

Meanwhile I am talking to girls, going to dates, trying to fuck and plate them. My question is this. When I'm talking to a girl with the eventual purpose of fucking her, how should I act around her, specifically:

  1. Do you stare at every nice ass you see? Do you stare at the boobs of your girl when she is talking? Do you behave the same when you are around new girls?

  2. Should I treat her like a sexual object more than a human? My gut says "yes! watch her ass/boobs, regardless of where she is looking at, THEN talk about her personality or how you appreciate all kinds of beauty". This is 100% what I am. No lie. Obviously I need to display I am someone who women love, that I have many options, that I have high social value. The message will be "I'm high SMV but I LOVE women. Respond to me or I'm moving to the next girl".

  3. Should I stare at ANOTHER girl in yoga pants walking by while I'm with a new girl? My gut tells me "yes, stare dat ass for 3-4 seconds, proudly, disregard everything else, and tell you love women and beauty when she notices you doing that". Should I listen to my gut?