If you are in a relationship and you think everything is going well - you are being deceived. There is a list of things that she is angry about that she isn't bringing up. She accumulates these gripes until something arbitrarily happens to make her explode on you. She won't tell you what she is mad about until it's too late. So while you're on a nice dinner date with her and she's smiling and looking into your eyes, she's actually pissed off about a dozen tiny things that you have recently done and is actively adding more things to the list. She expects you to read her mind and proactively solve these problems. Women sing the praises of the importance of open, honest communication in a relationship, but what they really mean is that they want the man to be an open, honest communicator. Women will not reciprocate communication. That is an example of their idea of fairness and equality.