Lets suppose you dont have the best body shape & height, face and aptitude to social skills, and over the years this lands you in a position where dating yields especially low success rate for you, if any.

First you try pickup and you make some development with your lacking social skills but you start to notice that better looking guys can be quite basic yet still desirable to the girls.

You might be dumped for better looking men and you develop even more scars that gets on your general health

You start thinking that hypergamy kills, although not directly.

You become bitter and you find the redpill and subsequent mgtow philosophies.

Lets suppose you have developed even more severe anxiety, depression, and other possible psychosomatic ailments and you believe that leaving the system will help you heal once and for all.

You start taking hobbies that can put you in a relaxed state and you start spending money on yourself. You start thinking that this independent life suits you and you are the actual king in life because no woman and no society tells you what to do.

Your anxiety and depression improves a lot in the process and you start thinking that this is the way to live.

Then you remember the old saying "no pain no gain" and you start question yourself.

"Why do I make improvements in my life if I exclude all the uncomfortable things?"

Well, my friend you dont actually make improvements you just paid a seat back to the mother womb.

What you have to do is getting really jacked in the gym, buy good clothes, find a suitable hair style, buy a home for yourself, a good car, straighten your teeth.

This costs a lot of money, time and YEARS from your life, and this is not enjoyable. All seconds of it will be pure pain. But this is the price you are not willing to pay.

But lets face it. You were not lucky enough to be born a CHAD. If you want to get there you will have to spend 5-10 years of your life with huge efforts. And during this time......CHAD LIVES his life.

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[sarcasm off]