I saw a recent post in here so I wanted to share my opinion on the subject and, possibly, put another perspective on it.

TL;DR

We all agree that paternity fraud is a hideus crime. We can also agree that single mothers (by choice, or by a pour choice of partners) are cancer of ''soyciety'' and that no one should be, or feel obligated to save them or help them anyhow. I don't mind at all when someone call men that step in in those kind of situations a cuck or a simp. That's who they are. They are slaves to their own thirst for pussy and their weeknes and they do not deserve even a pinch of respecte because they would throw other felow man under the buss just for oporitunity to get some.

But! I have an impression that we like to generalize things here a bit too much. Or to portrai it as a black or white with nothing ih between.

As you can imagine by now I wanted to shed some light on some of the rare cases which most of you would call negligable. Widows, or a good women (a.k.a. wife material, if they are not extinct spicies by now) who were tricked by some douchebag (we are not saints neithter, let's be honest), or agreeably departed from their men and are left with kids. Sometimes people get bored of eachother and they might be better apart. Maybe father of the kids went his own way who knows where. No hard feelings. Is it irresponsible to the kids? Absolutely. Would it be even worst if they stayed in dysfunctional marriage? My gues is yes.

Let's add to a formula a guy who want to have kids, but he can't, for one reason or another. Don't get me wrong, it's not my thing, all I'm trying to say that there are situations where a good men are steping in and providing essential male guidence to a young kids. Resources are a lot less crucial imo. It's almost the same thing as adopting a child. It's a major bro move if you ask me. When those kind of men step in they are saving a lot of little bros from all kinds of trouble. Some of them might grow into a good men one day. They have a chance at least. As for girls? I think that nothing can save them from mas and social media indoctination. Not to mention education system.

One more interesting thing that I would like to mention and it's topic related is origin of polygamy in islam. In the begining, when islam was spreading by war (I know, it hasn't change much scince), there were a lot of men who got killed in battle and have left their wifes and children behind. Those women still needed men too, and children needed a father. So men who were proven in battle and were financialy able to suport multiple families were given to merry those widows. Latter the same practice was repeated if there were born a lot more girls than boys, and much latter, that custom was totally abused and rich were able to marry multiple virgins while pour men were left to masturbate. Abuse of that law is disgusting, but I find the two first cases logical.

Any other opinions if anyone made it till the end?