Straight to the point. I think that if I, as a man, regularly go to the nude beaches full of 20 years old naked hoes with my friends - it does not help and with a high probability will ruin my marriage. Not because I am personally a bad husband or because I lack a self control. Maybe all will be ok. But certainly that behavior will make me want to cheat or even to divorce, sooner or later.

Now women and jobs. What I see.

I woman goes to the job. What does she do? She dresses in a best way. She prepares a make up. She prepares her hair, makes herself attractive, sometimes even tries to chose a great pair of panties and bra. May be even shaves her pussy, but that is of course when she is obviously cheating, still you get the point. She shows herself as a sexual woman and sends sexual signals. I hope that is an obvious part.

But quite often at home she does not put all this makeup, sexy things, etc the same way she would do at her job, i.e. for a husband she does not want to be as good as she wants to be for colleagues or a boss! Strange, yeah?

Ok, lets skip that part, lets see from the other position. 8 hours a day, 5 days a week a woman is in the office. Obviously, there she sees a lot of men, some of them are bosses, some of them are just succesfful guys, at least look like that, some of them are young chads. It is not that she even feels anything to them, let not be that rude. She will compare in her head every man with her husband. Is not that obvious ? Say there is just a decent guy in a same project, and 2, 3, or even 4 hours a day they are working together on a same thing. Feel an accomplishment. This leads to confusion in a head of woman, a guy is automatically "promoted" to a sort of inner cycle of friends or good guys.

Let's go further. At home a woman should do something. There are chores for her - cooking, cleaning, taking care about kids, washing, and even in a modern society these easy chores are considered dull and bored.But at her job a woman can feel like she can accomplish something great. That she is better than to be a stay at home mom. That she will have a really great career, especially if she is friendly with a boss.

You see my points. And lets not forget, because of quota for government jobs, a woman may get a same or even higher salary than her husband. Is not that great for a marriage?

I think that having a married woman working is a bad idea for society which values marriages and children. I personally know that under certain conditions I can not stop myself. Put me in the same room with a normal woman for 8 hours every day, and I may want to fuck her. And there are other men like me. When a married woman sees that there are colleagues who want to fuck her she gets an ego boost because of options, and just that ego boost is risky for her and her marriage, and I am talking about a NAWALT unicorn who would never cheat.

Do you think I am right, guys ? Of course whores will always be whores, with or without a job.