Unless they have very wealthy families that are basically willing to take over the financial responsibilities of the father even if the guy is kicking in some child support have you ever really seen any single mothers under 30 that aren’t complete dumpster fires financially? It just seems like it’s too much of a financial hit to take at the wrong age... We aren’t really being mean to them we just recognize this is an economic reality. Why sign yourself up to participate in “the struggle” when you are nearly or already out of it and it’s not even your struggle it’s someone else’s that got left for you to clean up...