Advice

30203forever · 2021-02-25T22:16:31+00:00

Start behaving needy, respond to her texts right away, love-bomb her, put her on such a pedestal that you won't be able to see that high up. All that while not having sex with her because of your issues. She'll be gone in one month, guaranteed.

DonMelbourne · 2021-02-25T23:27:25+00:00

Honestly I don’t want to hurt her , but I can’t keep this relationship. Would appreciate some advice from my brothers

Break up with her in the kindest way possible. You owe it to her. You have an obligation to her. My recommendation: text her that "you want to talk". Then set up a meeting in a public place (so she won't wreck your furniture) and tell her gently how you feel. End with giving her a hug. Good luck!

Substantial-Dealer76 · 2021-02-26T01:09:30+00:00

“She’s not like other girls... “

Ummmm...no. She’s exactly like other girls based on your description.

frenchlouve · 2021-02-26T00:02:04+00:00

OP, you don't owe this woman Jack shit. Don't listen to anyone who tells her you owe her anything. Break up with her however you want: text, phone call, email, ghosting her. Just hurry up and do it.

And honestly, I'd say have some really hot sex and then dump her.

BubblyBath7 · 2021-02-26T04:24:18+00:00

Acting needy and insecure is the fastest way to kill a relationship, you're likely aloof and uncaring and it fuels her desire for you even more.

Aggravating_Bed_92 · 2021-02-26T05:40:03+00:00

Hello, brother! Follow the advice above and remember that if you successfully break up with her, the following sequence of events will happen:

At the moment of the break up, she will try to emotionally assault you by hyperbolically crying to the point that if you remain calm and sustain your decision to end the relationship, you’ll be automatically be put under the construct of a cold, heartless and emotionless man, making her question the true meaning of all the previous interactions you had as a couple. She will later use that particular memory to distort her perspective on your character as a way to convince herself you are a psychopath and used her to fulfill obscure desires. Therefore, DO NOT have sex with her or say anything that might be interpreted as a continuation of that pattern. Stick to your decision and avoid all sorts of soothing physical contact or soothing words. She WILL attempt to seduce you with vulnerability and submissive behavior. Be careful, brother.

On the days following the breakup, she will try to make contact with you again in order to perform two very predictable routines:

If she has successfully distorted all the memories of the relationship, you’ll be seen as mere garbage to her, and she will have the deepest urge to create a scenario where she rejects you in order to make peace with her mind. She may try this for months or even years, depending on how hurt she felt. If she doesn’t get a chance to perform this routine, she will try to convince herself that she did reject you or “won” the game somehow. Have you ever heard a girl saying “OMG, I can’t believe I had feelings for THAT guy”? So don’t fall for it. She may even kiss you and all, but at the moment of the intercourse itself, she will try to reject you.
If she’s not able to fully kill her desire and end up having sex with you again, she will fail to perform the above routine and will feel even more shitty and used, which means she will try to hate you even more the next day and try even harder to reject you and destroy your image. I had ex-girlfriends proudly be my fuckbuddies for weeks before they were finally able to reinterpret EVERYTHING about the relationship and reject me. They need that show. They need that narrative in order to live in peace.

Good luck and go your own way, my friend!

SatyaNi · 2021-02-25T22:42:59+00:00

Breakup clean. But with benevolence.

Tell her that you and her are not in the same place.

That you cannot be what she need and she is not what you need.

That you wish her happiness, but that what you two had is over.

AND STICK TO THIS.

If you start changing your decision of breaking up out of pity, and because you can not stand her tears, it just mean that you are weak. And she will eventually despise you.

Break up clean, you’ll be doing both of you a great service.

casra888 · 2021-02-26T15:18:21+00:00

Tell her this. "I need space. Respect that or I ghost you."

Cold-Gene-4634 · 2021-02-26T02:15:45+00:00

SIMP !!!, I do it to get rid of girls.

Title	Advice
Author	Different_Fortune697
Upvotes	8
Comments	15
Date	February 25, 2021 10:07 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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