I feel like what’s the point in being in a relationship if I can’t let my guard down. I’ve seen it from my own experience, what happens when I let my guard down become all loving and nice (I guess beta), they lose attraction. When I act like an asshole and less loving, they’re more attracted. Idk I guess, I feel like it’s pointless being in a relationship if I must hold back some parts of myself, so they stay attracted. I know that’s the way to go, I know some of us wants to be nice and loving to our gf, but we can’t because they’ll lose attraction. How do guys balance it?