Just saw some comments on here, which I think are generally untrue. By the most part, people here are fine they understand that really women arent the issue with your own happiness and success. Its letting yourself be dictated by another person rather than following your own intentions.

Is it easy to fall into a life of temporary pleasure, at the cost of your own general wellbeing and self fufillment? Yes! Is it another persons fault? No, dosent matter if youre gay or if youre straight. Women arent whores and generalising a whole gender because youre unfufilled is unfair to them and to yourself. If you spent loads of time or money on another person. It was your decision. Did they influence you? Absolutely, but thats life and if you get mad at someone else for your own mistakes then you are being unfair to yourself more than anything. I saw a post here "women are whores", thats complete nonsense but lets assume thats true for one second (dont need to be a genius to figure out its not) Who cares? Women are whores big deal. Whats that got to do with you? Why are you focused on someone else. If youre girlfriend is a whore? Why are you with her if thats not what you like? Probably because its hard to walk away from a time investment or you still have feelings. Im not gonna say its easy. God knows im caught in the same trap in a way and its easier to preach than to do it. Actions are hard though and if the person youre with isnt making you happy. Its not on them to change. Its on you to change yourself. Not to mold yourself into who they want you to be. But to realise that they arent permitting you to be who you want to be and get the strength to walk away. Don't let this sub turn into an echochamber of hate or anything. Its admirable that people want to improve any way they want. This is an instance where people wont agree with it neccessarily but that dosent mean its wrong for you. Just dont let yourself hate "the world" when the problem is internally.