I subscribed to this sub bc I like seeing things from different perspectives. And a lot of it, I agree with.
It also applies to women. They can't just focus on men and derive all their sense value from dating. Everyone needs to develop their own self esteem, interests and passions. To work out and focus on their careers if that matters to them. You have to be your own person. You are more robust that way.
And not wanting to be in a relationship is a valid option.
I just think it is important to realize that thinking all women are the same is just like thinking all men are the same. People are people. Not all people are the same.
Not all women are after your money. Some have their own careers and make their own money. Or they do not care about money. Not all women are selfish or mean. Some are kind and empathic. Not all women want an unbalanced relationship, where they take more than they give. And not all women want the same kind of guy. And not all hot women are entitled.
Sometimes, nuance is a good thing. Look around, not just at women you have dated. But also your family, women you work with, women you see in the grocery store or on the buss. Really look.
