Alright So I want to hang out with Girl A. She is friendly/friends with Girl B. I was hanging out with Girl B a month ago, we had some fun but it was very short lived because I made some mistakes in being needy (scheduling meet ups too frequently). So she told me she doesn’t have the time and place to be seeing people. Alright might be legit because she is grad school. I have no idea how friendly they are with each other.

So girl A I’ve known for longer but rarely spoke to (because religion lol), but always been interested in and I want to pursue. I recently shed a lot of my religious beliefs and will have no hangups going after her.

So, there’s a weekly Friday night dinner for young adults in the religion. I would like to ask Girl A to secretly drive me to the event with her (my family will disown me if they knew I drove on Friday night). Then game her and go somewhere after like ice cream or a drink etc. I have the following questions.

  1. Is it ok to tell a girl to drive you somewhere? She is not really religious and therefore drives. My family is and it would be bad if they saw me driving. So I want to have her drive me without family seeing.

  2. Does it look more “bad boy” as a deconvert from a religion?

  3. I don’t have her number yet. Ask on facebook for her number? I don’t see her often at all in person in order to do so. This will be my first time going to the dinners and I cant walk there because it is miles away.

  4. Girl B also might show up at some or all of the dinners. How do I play it? What do I look out for if the girls interact with each other and Girl A tells Girl B that I am making moves? Will Girl B talk shit about me? Whats it like going after friends/acquaintances of a girl that rejected you (especially a month ago)?

Better idea to find someone else to drive me to event then game Girl A? I do want to know if having Girl A drive me is better for gaming her and "having an excuse" to go do something after dinner since we're in the same car (i.e. lets go for ice cream etc before heading back home)

Thank you bros