Hi to some of you who are maybe struggling with having feelings for a woman or even loving her, don't be alarmed. Going your own way doesn't mean that you can't love a woman. There are many good qualities that they have.
I love my mother, my aunt, my sister's and Natalie Portman (Too creepy?). Love is a normal human emotion and you are not wrong for loving a woman.
Emotions are what make us animals. Complex emotions like love are what make us human.
But, as humans we have the ability to self-regulate on volition alone. Unlike most animals who act instinctually, you as a human can control your actions. Your emotions don't have to necessarily turn into actions.
For example, sometimes, I want to eat everything in sight. But, I don't because I'm concerned about my health and appearance. I know that if I start eating 4,000 calories worth of chocolate cake a day, it won't be long before my abs become invisible under a layer of fat. If I continue binge eating for a long enough period of time, my diet will lead to long-term health complications. So, I control my eating habits.
My love for the chocolate cake isn't bad. It's natural. The chocolate cake isn't even bad per se. But the type of relationship that I have with cake can be bad for me.
The same goes for women. If you want hookups, or to hire pro's or even a very short-term casual relationship. That is fine. But you cannot do LTR, Cohabiting or marriage. Because like junk food, the more integrated she becomes into your life or investments the worst for you a woman will become.
I want to stress that this isn't because women are inherently evil. They just simply cannot love or value you as a person. She can love her family, friends and her pet. But she cannot love a man. This doesn't mean you can't love her. You just can't get attached.
Now, like the fitness model or bodybuilder who eats clean all the time, some MGTOW never have anything to do with women. That's good, he's doing what he thinks is best and he probably won't die as early as the guy who eats junk daily. On the other hand, some of us occasionally go and have our sexual needs met. That's also fine (Depending on your religious beliefs).
But like the person who eats junk food 24/7. The man who takes on a LTR, or cohabs, or marries a woman is endangering himself. It's not a matter of if things will go south, its a matter of when.
If you're still struggling with caring about a woman just remember this rule:
You can still love a woman... But you can't keep her.
