So here's the deal. After having an epiphany last month that I was a 21 year old with no sexual experience I sought out to change that. Yesterday I did, I met a girl for coffee and we ended up at her place. Anyways, after sex she immediately began talking about babies with me, and that if we had one it was meant to be. It freaked me out, as she made it pretty clear that she would definitely have the baby even though she hardly knew me. Another issue is that just after sex we were talking about our histories and she couldn't even remember her partner count, which really put me off.

Furthermore, just before sex she told me to not bother with the condom because she was on birth control. I saw the patch on her but part of me felt like she may not be on it regularly, so I ignored and made it very clear that I would only have sex with a condom. After, she told me to throw it in the garbage, but seemed very specific about which garbage can to throw it in. I've heard horror stories about crazy girls inseminating themselves shortly after sex so my irrational mind is conjuring up this crazy idea that she was specific for a reason. Another issue is that I didn't wash my hands after removing it and went back to work with my fingers shortly after, which made have had residue on them. I know it is very irrational to even be concerned about these two possibilities , but a quick google search proved that both are technically possible and have occurred.

And don't even get me started on STD's. I should be happy I received my first BJ, but instead I'm concerned about possibly getting herpes after my first time and ruining my odds with any future sexual partners because I contracted it. I know I'm not being rational about this, it's like I jumped from being stressed about still having my v-Card to being even more stressed about losing it to this high partner count girl I barely knew.

What do you guys think, should I be concerned about any of this? Did I do anything wrong? What would you recommend in the future to avoid any issues or potential concerns? How do you guys avoid this type of stress or anxiety when you have multiple plates at once?