plate invites me to event I said yes, she gets tickets, I told her next day that I wasn't sure if I wanted to go anymore, she says she can give it to a friend who is going with us anyways (this wasn't even mention to me until than… i dont rly want to meet her fucking friends)… I feel bad about bailing and I know she will not be happy about it. I know that if I am super experienced with dozens of plates its irrelevant how she feels and I should just bail on her, but i'm a newb and would rather do what is best for her attraction to me. She is super into me, so turning this down might make her want me even more… idk, thoughts? Ideas for how I should word it or excuses?