So long story, somewhat shortened.

I was 21 when I got married. I'm now almost 32. During my 8.5 year marriage, my ex cheated on me twice. First time was within a year but her religious father convinced me to not to divorce. 2nd time I was accosted by a jealous GF while I was having a beer at the bar.

So I divorce her. Never having any other relationship, that summer was wild. I settled down with a girl for 1.5 years. Let her move in.

I tell you what, living with someone shows you who they really are. Finally, after fighting about her alcoholism and need for therapy over her sister who died 15 years ago from cancer, she decided to blow up on me going out to have karaoke and having a family of friends, most of whom are female, be there, she accused me of cheating. Neve cheated, never will. I got her phone, which was unlocked, and there it was. Constant snaps of her to her cop ex. Were they sexual? I truly dont know and dont care. Shes a hairstylist and claimed it was only for when he or his kids needed a haircut. Yet she sent him 3 snaps yesterday, 6 the day before, and it kept going.

So now shes moving out. Time to work on myself.