hi, so i met this sorority girl on NYE, had a great time together and fucked her at the end of the night. I want to join a frat at my college but you need someone to invite you. Since she is in top sorority, she is let in at any time with whoever she comes with. I havent talked to her since NYE because I hate texting (only use it for logisitics but i did send her the customary "I had a great time" text which she responded positively).

Here are my two responses I can send her:

  • my idea: "hey, when are you going to (frat name) pre-game? its been a while, we should meet up"

  • From u/SkorchZang : What I would do is, text her out of the blue "do any of your GFs want to be in my private army to help convince those frat bozos to let me in? we want the ones that're so cute they can't say no ". She'll probably text you back laughing and saying something like "oh really? what do I get out of it". So you immediately push romance button, say "might take you out on a date, if you ask nicely" etc. etc. Making the request "not serious" and so that she isn't completely sure what you were after in the first place, the help from her or maybe you just want her ass. This is a good place to be with a woman. A woman will forgive you anything, including being a self-absorbed beggy asshole, but she will never forgive if you treat her like she's "just a person" and sexless to you.

Which one should i pick? If you have a better response please post it. Thanks