Only in the last while have I started attracting women I find attractive. Also posted to r/mgtow but this sub has less memes

30203forever · 2019-12-01T22:44:31+00:00

It all depends on what you want to do with your life. Either be the king or your castle or an indentured servant in hers (if she allows it, that is). The woman has nothing to do with it because that's how the legal system (i.e. the Family courts, police etc.) is set up. The choice is yours. Having said that, slavery is the natural state of the majority of the population & it looks like that you might fit right in. Of course, I might be mistaken but having read your posts, I bet you'll make a great little husband...

801735 · 2019-12-01T22:52:37+00:00

she's super out of my league

That's only in your head. The same might be bouncing around hers about you.

Do as you like and own possible consequences. Good luck.

mostly I resent that she wouldn't have looked at me twice 5 years ago

Perhaps you might want to get over yourself? And your non-existent past? Because that, too, is only in your head.

Carpe diem, within reasonable boundaries. What is reasonable is another thing, but it's mostly personal with some societal limitations.

KonyHawk_ProSlaver_ · 2019-12-01T22:57:38+00:00

You think too much. Have some self confidence. Women care about that, not your beard or your shoulders. Just do what you want to do.

And don't get married.

P.s. if you're still resentful of women cause of being ignored in earlier years, it's probably good to date casually for a while and not step into a relationship. Get that shit out of your system first.

throwaway21409124 · 2019-12-02T01:15:35+00:00

Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but to me it appears like the older women are starting to notice you because they want to settle down and find a provider for their existing children or future one's with you. I'm unsure without more details, are younger women giving you attention as well? "Half of me wants to go my own way and half of me wants to see where this leads" - believe me, it leads nowhere exciting or valuable.

Think of all the guys she has banged before finally deciding to stop and settle down, becoming a good girl and great mother material. Blah it's all so boring. 20 men? 50? 100? I wonder many km of dick has she taken without a shred of after-thought or care because she knows there will always be nice guys to take care of her.

"And she did mention wanting kids" , " she's super out of my league if she wasn't actually 36", " But I know I'm always going to be the teeny small-shouldered dude she is settling for in her old age", "personality wise, shy but smart". Just a horror story really, some people only learn the hard way. Do what you will.

huazanim · 2019-12-02T00:03:00+00:00

She's experiencing baby rabies, and at her age, possibility of passing a genetic disorders, increases exponentially.

Impossible-asset · 2019-12-02T02:43:54+00:00

If you start doubting yourself and whether or not mgtow is "the right way" for you.

First thing to do is go jerk off and clear your head.

Then make yourself a cup of tea or coffee or something.

Then do what men do best. An analytical review of the pluses and minuses of what you are thinking.

Look at what it will cost you in money, time, effort, energy. Then look at what she is offering you in return for your expenditures.

If the balance shows that it's a good deal with fewer liabilities, hey go ahead. But I've found both through life experience on my own and learning from other men that it very rarely is worth it.

I am permanently happier on my own. Your results may vary.

likwid2k · 2019-12-02T18:47:33+00:00

Either get a vasectomy and fuck her or make sure to use condoms.

MGTOW_BEASTMODE · 2019-12-01T22:44:26+00:00

Sounds as if you enjoy how much she is attracted you and you would slowly get bored when you realize that after a few years and she lives with you.

Sandman10372 · 2019-12-02T07:23:57+00:00

Ride the lightening! Keep your hands up and protect yourself at all times: Use your own condoms. Dispose of your own condoms, not in her trash can. Keep your home and bank accounts separate. Walk away instead of getting angry. Never raise your voice.

As long as she's paying her own way, splitting dinners, movies, etc. Have fun. Be honest...with yourself and her. Especially about having kids. That may be the deal breaker.

If she starts talking about "the next level" pack your shit the end is neigh.

transcis · 2019-12-02T12:09:02+00:00

Do you want to help this woman to raise the child she wants? As soon as you give her that child, you will not ever be her first priority. She will also almost certainly lose her looks forever.

gyckaz · 2019-12-03T05:05:47+00:00

I'd say date her for a while, fuck her as much as you can and then stop dating her. If you will end up being with her you will accept the weak beta-provider male role, you won't respect yourself and she eventually will stop showing respect to you. In fact, I bet she has little respect for you right mow bevause she uses you as a last resort. Think about that for a second and be really honest with yourself. Do you really want it?

FullHand · 2019-12-03T09:41:12+00:00

Fix your self-perception before anything

clapas · 2019-12-03T14:14:34+00:00

Sounds like a carrousel rider, approaching the wall, who wants a provider to settle down.

Title	Only in the last while have I started attracting women I find attractive. Also posted to r/mgtow but this sub has less memes
Author	passsingstrange
Upvotes	1
Comments	49
Date	December 1, 2019 10:18 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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