I want to be really clear at the start of this that I am not looking for a r/iamverybadass style discussion.

I am curious about other guys experience with violent confrontation, how often, how serious and what caused it.

In my experience it has been rare as an adult, i'm a fairly big guy (6 foot 2 and about 210lbs) but by no means enormous, I think I end up in a fight very 5 years or so. A good few have been caused in the past by girls stirring shit but by no means all.

What's your experience of this? Just looking to open a discussion on a side of life as a man that is rarely discussed.