Relationship experts say one of the most dangerous beliefs about marriage is that you're supposed to make your spouse happy

LittleGanymede · 2018-09-18T06:44:27+00:00

What makes this person an expert?

monway · 2018-09-18T15:28:09+00:00

Regardless of expertise still good advice.

solaris32 · 2018-09-20T23:34:19+00:00

Didn't read the article. Ideally in a relationship both partners should aim to make the other happy. Problems occur when it becomes one-sided which is all too often. Or when one of the people begins to expect it and gets mad when for whatever reason it is not given one day.

Oversia · 2018-09-23T19:06:14+00:00

Maybe some guy don't understand this.

Unless a woman is soaking and dripping wet for you, constantly calls you, always wants to be in your presence, hangs on every word you say, cooks for you, buys you presents and gifts, honors you, submits to you, defers to you, looks up to you, believes you are stronger and smarter than her, and believes that you are better than her then the man should have nothing to do with the woman.

A man should only be dealing with a woman when the woman is chasing that man hard. If the woman is not completely dripping with excitement, quivers at your voice when you speak then the woman is not interested.

I see a big problem is guys are chasing, dating, and marrying women that are settling for them.

How do you know a woman settles for you in a relationship or marriage?

She isn't doing all the things in the above paragraphs. If you as a man never had a woman treat you this way then that means you never experienced anything besides being settled for.

Maybe some guys can handle that. But the consequence is always the same. The woman will cheat on you and then leave you.

The woman that you marry and the woman that you date should be quivering and dripping wet while listening with all intensity at everything you say. And she should constantly be wanting to spend every waking moment with you.

If she is not acting that way then she will eventually cheat and leave.

Title	Relationship experts say one of the most dangerous beliefs about marriage is that you're supposed to make your spouse happy
Author	gone_his_own_way
Upvotes	9
Comments	6
Date	September 17, 2018 7:40 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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