Marriage isnt the problem...

Chill-BL · 2018-05-12T13:06:42+00:00

cool, but then you get an 80/20 dynamic where 20% of men get 80% of women. what are you going to do with the 80% of men and 20% of women left.

not trying to disregard your opinion but your view on the rest I'm curious about.

AncientDragons · 2018-05-07T20:13:10+00:00

"Rather, a marriage should be polygynous, with the man as manager of his wives..."

Why on earth would you want that kind of responsibility? You want to be responsible for the well-being and happiness of more than one woman? God no. That sounds worse than the current ball of pain that marriage is in 2018.

IncomeByEtnicity · 2018-05-15T04:12:42+00:00

I agree with the OP that Monogamous Marriage is a bad idea, but only if you are a poor person and have no hope of climbing the ladder. But if walk away far enough from ladder and look up at who is at the top, you will realize that wealth generation in the USA today is a pure monopoly of the monogamous. The highest earning, most successful ethnic group in the country are [Indian Americans], perhaps one of the most monogamous ethnic group in the country.

Their system of arranged marriages is older men (like those here in the MGTOW movement) using their wisdom to guide the Marriage choices of younger men. This enables them to make decisions that they don't regret later (like all divorced, broke MGTOWs). Arranged monogamous marriages is a Social and Economic safety net by ensuring that the woman you are marrying is at least as rich/qualified/wealthy as you are.

Who cares if one of you made a wrong choice about kitchen tile colors, when there are 8 floors of broke whites living in your building paying your rent. Maybe a few sighs about having to pack up and leave for the vacation home again, but that's it. In a poor person's house, that's a Divorce. HA !

Monogamy and investing in children's education are the Safest most stable Income Engines. But you need to be humble in your 20s and take the wisdom of elders, AND be Either wealthy or highly educated to play.

"Proud boys" and tiki torches rally boys, screaming "We will not be replaced" need not apply.

peaceful_strong_man · 2018-04-22T21:28:16+00:00

Lol at the whiners here getting mad that I said that some mgtows are like feminists.

IcebergHermit · 2018-04-21T04:34:01+00:00

Marriage should have a three year max limit and you have to decide to renew for another three years or else it expires.

DuckIsPurple · 2018-04-14T20:01:18+00:00

Yes but most women I have encountered would not be ok with polygamy. They want the man as their personal slave. Right? Maybe they invented marriage. I am fine with polygamy, but most women I encountered do not want to share the man with other women.

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xx_deleted_x · 2018-04-14T19:01:36+00:00

Divorce is the problem, not marriage. If it was a shame & a financial burden rather than a windfall for the woman, then I'd imagine there would be more careful mate selection & more effort put into making it work.

car23975 · 2018-04-23T10:29:03+00:00

A marriage should be whatever you want it to be. It is 2018. People should be intelligent enough to at least know what they want.

But also be mindful that not everyone likes your idea. There are blue pills out there programmed, by society, to be with one chick the rest of their lives. I prefer a life where I adopt and take care of my kids as single parent.

Diversity beats all. I prefer to have all viable options on the table rather than to have one or two.

jamesbwbevis · 2018-04-30T22:30:18+00:00

Marriage IS a problem, because its totally unnatural and doesn't work as soon as it's not needed from a gender role perspective.

It cant work.

oldrunnerguy · 2018-04-25T15:48:46+00:00

Marriage is a problem now that the state has managed to screw it up. Maybe we should make it more difficult to get married, especially for women. With the courts throwing out pre-nups because they are deemed to be unfair to women, they have created a narrative where marriage is easy for women but difficult for men. I think that divorce should be considered an annulment up until 10 or more years (as though it never happened, a trial period). This would create a situation where women would not have the cash and prizes they currently do when divorcing (up until that point). The idea is to create more of a situation where a woman would be more willing to make it work throughout the commitment and it could function as a deterrent to marital fraud.

I don't know whether it would be practical or not. However, I see a society where women always push for marriage, but also where they initiate 75% of the divorces as well. Isn't it currently trial and error for them? Why can't we even the odds?

lanebreaker3 · 2018-04-27T17:38:25+00:00

As a MGTOW, I actually would want marriage and a wife. However, that has been rendered almost impossible through our divorce court system and the predatory nature of big brother and the government. A lot of MGTOW out there are Virgin Tow, and have not had successful relationships. I've actually had a couple of successful, long term relationships and know very well that good women exist. I'm going to catch a lot of flack and say that MGTOW is mostly just a position where you inform others of the dangers of women, not avoiding women entirely: as such, MGTOW is a re prioritization. Instead of focusing your efforts on finding women, it might be much more better to focus your efforts on you. If a woman happens to come along that's marriage material, then that's fine and dandy: oh, and when I say marriage I do not mean to sign the government contract, I just mean to settle down.

a_aniq · 2018-05-29T10:59:37+00:00

80% of men will drop out from work, economy will shrink. Men need pussy, whereas women need financial and emotional support. Then the financial competition will be between those 20%. When 20% of the men will see 80% living peacefully they will switch too further shrinking the population and economy. This model is unsustainable. In the world dominated by capitalism this model won't work.

Title	Marriage isnt the problem...
Author	peaceful_strong_man
Upvotes	4
Comments	70
Date	April 14, 2018 2:53 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW2
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