Lately I have been messing around with concept of Brutally honest game, where you tell something straight and as it is without sugar coating it and/or trying to play mind games. This involves true "outcome independence" and "abundance mentality" which I am not faking because I do have stable relationship and my needs are met on demand.

For instance: "I want to kiss you right now" - looking straight in the eyes and going for a kiss, if she declines just play it off very calmly. If she starts justifying it somehow, tell her "If you would be attracted to me enough we would kiss, but oh well I guess you have some things that you are unsure about" and continue doing what I am doing.

I just kisscloses a woman who is older than me this way, and we will see how it goes, could not f-close because of logistics and genually I did not want to have sex at this time.

My question is, who esle has experience with this style of game? How has it worked for you? What are possible downsides? What is next level?