Virginia is one of the states that follows equitable property division rules when dividing property when a couple is divorcing. ... The family law court will divide property according to equitable property division rules which seek to divide property between the couple as fairly as possible.

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My wife forced a separation, then she was arrested for assault. Emotions were up and down during the separation. I finally decided to hire a lawyer. He said we could make an argument about me footing most of the bills, but recommended a low number for me to settle and move on. I need to think of myself. Has anyone got advice?!