On the financial declarations, am I only supposed to include my income? Not hers? Because the expenses are of course both of our expenses. So are the expenses, like spending $1000 a month at the grocery, to remain at that number on this form? They’ll drop considerably once the divorce is final, or even once she or I move. Along with utilities and housing. If I put down $1000 a month for groceries, surely it wouldn’t be right for her to list $1000 too? But nothing says to split the expense. Or that we both shouldn’t list it. Surprised there are no instructions to be found on this. It seems like a lot of numbers are up in the air unless it’s defined much more clearly.