My wife of 14 years with 7 year old son and 13 year old daughter told me 3 weeks ago she wanted to leave me. I have been pretty down for a while since I don't get much help with the kids or around the house, but I quickly found that she sent her boss over 5100 texts in 1 billing cycle. She denies anything shady but now says she wants to work on it. Every other day she is happy or has an attitude. I really want it to work out, but I am going crazy. Our first therapy session is tomorrow which will be interesting to see how it plays out since she doesn't share her feelings I would be better off without her, but I love this woman and I am really torn up.

Reading what other guys are going through has really helped me feel like I'm not alone in this. Thanks .