I really don’t know what else to say. My wife and I have a 2/12 year old and a 4 month old. Neither of us are happy. Faults on both sides, admittedly. I hate this for my children, but, do I want them to grow up with an unhappy, possessive off father? Or, see someone that enjoys life and who he is with. Same for their mother.

My dad took it worse than my mom. Repeatedly saying we should stay together for the children. But, I don’t want my flowers to grow up in toxic soil. I genuinely think we can co parent and maintain civility and frankly, be better friends than husband and wife.

I don’t have anyone to talk to, hence posting here...