I have an older sister, shes approaching 30. I used to love her, but now seeing her just drains my energy. I even plan my visits in very late evenings, so when I get back I can just go to bed and be done with that day.

In the last couple of years, she became very bitter and hateful about her husband, her life, her few friends. I lost a lot of respect for her when she told me after few beers, that she had multiple affairs on her husband (extremaly beta btw).

My sister constantly talks about how she wants to party hard, do drugs and attend rap concerts (omg this rapper is totally hot! i wouldnt have sex with him im not that kind of girl, of course). I got nothing against rap concerts or partying hard, but I feel like it is inappropriate for woman with small kid to daydream about some loser rapper.

I lost all my respect for her, and I only spend time with her out of obligation. However,I dont want to cut her off, after all she is family and has done some good stuff for me in the past, and I love her children. Help me out, guys. I cant just next my sister, she is not some random hoe.